Why, you do of course! When people request an appointment with a Professional Dominatrix, they are asked to fill out a form that details their interests, limits, health issues etc. As a professional, we need to take a clients interests as well as physical and emotional well being into account while also re-creating an experience they have been playing out in their head for, in some cases, years. This form helps the Domme craft a scene for the client that starts the moment she meets them that will push their boundaries, while not breaking them and hopefully, out perform the fantasies they’ve had in their head. A version of this intake form is only available as a free gift to those who join my mailing list.
Ever feel like you are the only woman who wants in the bedroom?
Years ago, when I first started blogging, women would contact me and tell me about their sex lives. Sometimes it was to ask questions, other times it was simply because they had no one else to talk to about some aspect. Often times, they said they felt they were the only ones who could possibly be going through, and feeling what they were feeling. I knew they weren’t alone and rather then just tell them, I asked them to write about their sexually defining moments to contribute to a book. I gave no other direction. I wanted to know what women felt defined them sexually. I’m not sure what I expected, but I had no idea the breadth of stories I would receive. My inbox filled with tales of desire, sadness, manipulation, conversations, kink, some happy, some sad, some funny. Every woman had her own distinct story, and in contrast to the 50 shades of grey the media touted with the sexual awakening of women, these stories made it clear that women were already wide awake and shining with fifty shades of glitter.